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The number of gays discharged from the military dropped every year under Reagan. In contrast, the number of gays discharged increased every full year under Bill Clinton except one, doubling from 617 in 1994 to 1,231 in 2000. The number of gays discharged decreased again every full year under George W. Bush except one, halved from 1,273 in 2001 to 612 in 2006. Gay rights groups report the number of gays discharged over decades, but they never break it down by administration, because the numbers make Democrats look bad and Republicans look good.
Another factor in the LGBTQ community is domestic violence. It does happen in the gay community. The core of all of this is the need and desire to be loved, and out of that there's raw feelings and emotions, and sometimes it leads to domestic violence. Unfortunately, sometimes the victims stay in a bad relationship or bad situation because of an overwhelming need to be loved. They may try to work it though even though it may Hot Men On Men not be the best option.
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In regardless to having a family, many people claim that children of gay parents will identify themselves as gay. However, studies following children of gay parents have found no significant difference in the percentage of children that become gay when compared to children of heterosexual couples. Not only are children of gay couples not likely to become gay simply because their parents are, studies also found children of gay parents to follow the statistics of children of heterosexual children. Behavior and performance in school has been found to be based more on the type of home the child lives in. Does the child live in an abusive household or are they a child of divorce? Or is the child's home filled with nothing but love and support. Studies show that children are more affected by the stability and support in their household than by the sexual orientation of their parents.
Our over the top emphasis on physical beauty leaves us empty, shallow, depressed and alone. If the physical is all you care for, you might as well make love to Adonis, after his death. Nobody is denying the pleasurable addiction to eye chocolates. Your eye-chocolates might be the perfectly shaped male biceps, the next guy might be addicted to a 6-8 pack torso, my ultimate eye-chocolate is a perfectly shaped ass; it drives me wilder than a rhinoceros horn. Yet, who wants to end up with only an ass in your life? I'm not suggesting that we should pretend as if physical beauty is nothing; I'm not suggesting that we let ourselves go; I'm merely stating that a perfectly shaped ass will leave you with little more than a fart to talk to.
So the question is where do we begin? How do we begin to heal the wounds left by years of feeling isolated, 'different' from the rest, years of being told that we are abominations, deviants, pedophiles, freaks and so many other 'labels', that unfortunately many of us started to, and eventually believed - some to the Gay Men On Men point where they have ended their life? What comes to mind is Gandhi's words "Be the change you want to see in the world." To me that translates into: be the healing, powerful, loving and self accepting gay person I want to see other gay men and women be in the world. The work starts first with oneself, then, as Rev. Ed Bacon indicates, in the community in which we live.
"Exceptionalism" is central to the conservative assertion that we represent the gold standard for democratic ambitions. However, the truth is that America has miles to go before we realize the dreams/vision expressed by our sacred documents. We are indeed a work in progress. Sadly, for most of our history only those in the "good ole boy club" have enjoyed the promises of our most sacred documents. Every group that has arrived on these shores has had to scratch and claw to enjoy full participation. The exclusive country club only M4m welcomed white Anglo-Saxon Protestant males. Immigrants, women, and non-protestants have fought, petitioned, marched and lost their lives in the pursuit of the American dream. Those pursuing marriage equality have been forced to endure the same crucible.
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Some politicians, including those New York state senators who changed Gays their votes on the marriage equality bill, have admitted publicly that they were wrong. Doing so takes courage, however, that not all politicians can be expected to muster.
Hopefully, you and he had enough sense to pick a meeting spot that will allow for plenty of chatting opportunities. If you're meeting at a coffee shop or restaurant, you'll be able to linger over a cup of coffee and chat about all your personal background and experiences, and truly get to know one another. This is so very important in establishing what could end up being a relationship. You simply must become familiar with each other. Going to the movies or a play won't get you closer to each other, except that you might share an armrest. You need to be social with one another, find out what things he enjoys doing, what he expects from a dating relationship, how he has been living his life so far (has he been partnered, terminally single, just out of the closet).
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The executive branch's new position will affect at least two more cases currently pending that involve DOMA. Pedersen v. OPM, a case in Connecticut, concerns the denial of marriage-related protections for federal benefits such as Family Medical Leave Act benefits and federal laws relating to state pension plans. In New York, Windsor v. United States centers on Married Bisexual Men the federal government's refusal to recognize a couple's marriage for federal estate tax purposes. Holder advised Boehner that "[...] the President has instructed the [Justice] Department not to defend the statute in Windsor and Pedersen, now pending in the Southern District of New York and the District of Connecticut. I concur in this determination."
Really? Let me ask you gay marriage was legal at the time you met your wife or husband, would you have thought twice about marrying them because gays could also get married? If gays were allowed to get married how, would your marriage lessen in its worth? Come on people, gay marriage would do nothing to the value of your marriages, and you know it. This is a horrible argument.
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We cannot tell for certain whether Bachmann's shift is a change of tone or a change of heart, but it is undoubtedly a change for the better. Her position brings us a little closer to a time when equal rights for same-sex couples are not a matter for debate.
Thus, by all of the hoopla by Christian leaders on the overturning of Proposition 8, they are taking the risk of turning people away from God's grace. This includes both Christians and non-Christians alike. In addition, this appears to be distraction for the Church from its primary purpose-that of making disciples of Jesus Christ. Instead, what is needed-for all-is the experience Gay Men 4 Men of God's grace, something, unfortunately, many evangelical leaders have apparently forgotten.
Its a shame that something so important to our happiness in life is often just left to chance. There is no courses in high school, and very little information in the media on how to begin relationships and Men Searching Men make them work successfully. This is especially so for those of us who are gay and lesbian. Historically and until just very recently we have been either ignored or at best depicted disparagingly. So we have not had any positive role models to emulate and give us a sense of societal respect and self-worth.
